1. Who was your first "crush" when you were young?
2. If you were honest, where is it the toughest for you to "sacrifice self?"
3. Give an example of something that is difficult for you to give up.
4. What does it mean to you personally that Jesus takes you into the confidence of the Father?
5. How have you experienced your having been "chosen" by God?
6. What were you doing in life when God chose you?
7. In what areas of your life do you feel you could improve your abiding and thus sharpen your discipleship?